Author: wildaboutthegap

I recently heard someone say they make memories every single day.

That thought stuck with me.

When I stopped and really looked at my own life, I realized… I don’t always do that.

Life gets busy.

Days blur together.

To-do lists grow longer, and before I know it, another week has passed in the blink of an eye. Time doesn’t slow down—it just keeps moving, whether we’re paying attention or not.

And the truth is… I’m getting older.

That realization isn’t meant to be heavy—it’s meant to be motivating. Because I don’t want to wake up one day and realize that my life is made up of “I wish I would have…” moments. I don’t want to reach a point where memories are all I have because I let too many opportunities slip by.

I want to be intentional now.

I want to create moments—big and small—that matter.

Especially with my husband.

But not just with him…

I want to make memories with our parents as they live out their golden years—soaking in their stories, their laughter, and helping them build new memories.

With our children, as they navigate adulthood, marriage, and parenthood—walking beside them, cheering them on, and being present in all the milestones and the messy moments in between.

With our grandbaby, who is just beginning to build her own little world of memories—where even the smallest moments feel big and magical.

With friends—both new and old—the ones who have walked with us through seasons of life and the ones we are just beginning to know.

Not every memory has to be a grand trip or a big celebration. Sometimes it’s as simple as sitting on the porch together, laughing over something silly, or sharing a quiet moment at the end of a long day. Those are the gaps—the spaces in between the chaos—where life really happens.

That’s where the magic is.

So I’m making a quiet promise to myself:

To slow down when I can.

To be present more often.

To choose connection over distraction.

Because making memories isn’t about having more time… it’s about using the time we have differently.

And from here on out, I want to make at least one meaningful moment every single day.

This evening, my husband handed me the fortune from his cookie and said, “You need this.”

He wasn’t wrong.

Take time to relax, especially when you don’t have time for it.

This past weekend was our long-awaited fundraising gala. Planning began last fall, and before I knew it, Saturday night had arrived. Months of preparation, countless details, and a whole lot of heart went into making it all come together.

And it did.

From the music filling the room to couples gliding effortlessly across the dance floor… from the excitement of auction winners claiming just what they had hoped for, to the smiles captured at the photo area—it was everything we had envisioned and more. A truly successful night, fueled by generosity and joy.

But behind the scenes? That’s where the real work lives.

The setup. The teardown. The lifting, hauling, organizing, and re-organizing. The kind of work that leaves your body aching in places you didn’t even know existed. I pushed myself well past exhaustion—but somehow, adrenaline carries you through when you’re surrounded by happy faces and a mission that matters.

It’s not until the very end—when the music fades, the last bids are collected, the financials are closed, and everything quiets down—that the exhaustion truly settles in.

And suddenly, that 6 a.m. alarm feels less like a suggestion and more like a cruel joke.

Yet even in the fatigue, my mind is already drifting forward.

What worked? What didn’t? How can we make the next one even better?

Because that’s the thing about passion—you feel the ache, but you also feel the pull to do it all over again.

So tonight, I’m taking that fortune to heart.

I’m resting these sore feet.

I’m easing this tired body.

And, at least for a little while, I’m letting my mind be still.

Because morning will come soon enough.

There are weekends that fill your schedule, and then there are weekends that fill your heart. This was one of those heart-filling weekends.

I was blessed to spend the past few days with my precious 14-month-old granddaughter. My husband has nicknamed her “Velcro,” because she has been stuck to me the entire visit. And honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

At this age, little ones love to cling, and I’m soaking up every second of it. There’s something so special about holding her while she dozes off in my arms, feeling her little body relax as sleep takes over. Sometimes she just sits in my lap and jabbers away, telling me long stories in a language only toddlers understand. Other times she simply cuddles up against me, quietly watching everything I do.

Those quiet little moments mean more than words can say.

Of course, we also had our share of adventures. We played, explored, laughed, and enjoyed the simple fun that only a toddler can bring to the world. Every little discovery is exciting through her eyes, and it’s a beautiful reminder to slow down and appreciate life’s simple joys.

I know that one day her world will grow bigger. It will be filled with friends, school, activities, and all the wonderful things that come with growing up—things that will likely seem far more exciting than spending time with Grandma and Grandpa.

And that’s exactly why I treasure these moments now.

She reminds me just how precious life truly is. How important it is to cherish the sweet moments… and even the not-so-sweet ones that come with meltdowns, tears, and a runny little nose. Because in those moments, all she really needs is to be held. And when I wrap my arms around her, the storm passes and the world feels right again.

These are the memories that stay with us. The cuddles, the laughter, the little arms wrapped around your neck.

And this Sweet Sunday, my heart is full.

Texas weather has a way of reminding us just how powerful nature can be. What started as darkening skies quickly turned into roaring thunder, pounding rain, and hail so large it filled the palms of our hands. For a while it seemed like the storm might never end.

The wind howled, the rain poured, and the sky stayed heavy and gray. Then, just when it felt like the clouds might last forever, something beautiful happened. Through a small gap in the thick blanket of storm clouds, the sun began to peek through. Just a sliver of light—but enough to remind us that the storm was finally passing.

With the calm comes the moment when we step outside and take a look around. Branches scattered, puddles everywhere, and a reminder that storms can leave their mark. We flip the table back over, dry off the chairs, make sure nothing is broken and that the little chickens are all okay. But before any of that, we pause to be thankful.

Here in the Gap, rain is a blessing. Every drop that fell today will soon bring life back to the land. In just a few days the grass will grow greener, wildflowers will begin to bloom, and the trees will stretch a little taller toward the sun. Even the birds seem to know it’s coming, returning to their feeders as the rain fades and the world grows quiet again.

Storms can be loud and messy, but they also bring renewal. Tonight’s thunderstorm reminded us that beauty often follows the roughest weather. And sometimes all it takes is a small break in the clouds to see the light again.

That’s the magic of nature in the Gap. 

-Mary

There’s something special about slowing down long enough to notice the little wonders around us. Today’s beautiful weather in the Gap felt like the perfect invitation to step away from work for a bit, grab my camera, and enjoy one of my favorite pastimes- wildlife watching.

One of the stars of the day was a vibrant Northern Cardinal perched perfectly on a tree branch. Cardinals are always a treat to see, their brilliant red color standing out so boldly against the soft greens and browns of nature. But what made this moment even better was the bird’s expression.

Instead of quickly flying away like many birds do, this little fellow paused and seemed to study me just as carefully as I was studying him through my lens. Head slightly tilted, eyes focused… almost like he was trying to figure out what I was doing there.

Moments like that make me smile. We spend so much time bird watching, but I often wonder—what do the birds think when they’re human watching? Do they see us as curious creatures wandering through their world with odd gadgets and lenses? Do they wonder why we stand so still, quietly hoping they’ll stay just a few seconds longer?

That’s the fun of bird photography. You never quite know what moment you’ll capture, but sometimes you’re lucky enough to freeze a tiny exchange between two curious species sharing the same peaceful day.

Today, it felt like the cardinal and I were both enjoying the show. And for a few quiet seconds in Buffalo Gap, we were simply watching each other. 

-Mary

Pulling up to my office at Ballinger Memorial Hospital this morning, I was greeted by the most unexpected and breathtaking sight. Perched proudly just outside, as if standing guard, was a beautiful hawk.

We’re blessed to see a variety of birds around Ballinger Memorial. From cheerful songbirds flitting between the trees to doves resting quietly nearby, there’s always something that catches my eye. But this was the first time I’ve ever seen a hawk waiting there. And what a presence it had.

Hawks are simply majestic. There’s a confidence about them — a quiet strength. The way they sit so still, yet so alert. Their sharp eyes missing nothing. Their wings built to soar higher than most of us ever will. You can’t help but pause and admire them.

It felt symbolic somehow. A reminder to rise above the chaos of the day. To see the bigger picture. To stand firm and grounded, yet be ready to soar when the time comes.

In the middle of busy schedules, ringing phones, and full calendars, God has a way of placing something beautiful right in front of us if we’re willing to look up and notice it.

This morning, that reminder came with feathers and fierce grace.

Wild about Texas — and the beautiful creatures that call it home. 🦅

There’s a reason we never say, “Thank God it’s Monday.”

For most of us, the first day of the work and school week actually begins the night before. Sunday evening rolls around and instead of soaking in the last bit of weekend peace, the mental to-do list starts forming… and it refuses to hush.

Did I pack everything?

What meetings are on the calendar?

What did I forget?

By the time Monday morning arrives, it can feel like we’ve already put in a full day.

And then we actually walk into Monday.

No matter how organized we try to be, that neatly written to-do list often goes right out the window. Last-minute emails. Unexpected schedule changes. Someone needs something “ASAP.” Phones ringing. Deadlines shifting. Before we know it, we’re juggling more than we planned and running on sheer determination and caffeine.

By the end of the day, nerves can feel a little frazzled. Smiles might be more forced than fresh. And Monday once again earns its well-deserved title: Manic Monday.

But here’s the silver lining.

If you’re like me, by late afternoon there’s a quiet sense of accomplishment settling in. One more Monday has been put in the books. We showed up. We handled the surprises. We adapted. We survived the chaos.

There’s something powerful about that.

Monday reminds us that we’re capable — even when the day doesn’t go as planned. Especially when it doesn’t go as planned.

Now we find ourselves in the home stretch of the evening. Shoes off. Deep breath. Maybe a quiet moment watching the sunset over the Gap, letting nature calm what the day stirred up. The same sky that saw the rush of the morning now paints a softer ending to it all.

And that makes me wonder…

What will Tuesday hold?

Maybe it will be smoother. Maybe it will bring its own surprises. But tonight, we rest knowing we conquered Monday.

And that’s no small thing.

Mary

Over the past five months, I’ve made some huge lifestyle changes — and they’ve completely transformed how I feel. I’m down 50 pounds, but even more importantly, I feel better than I did in my 20s. More energy. More clarity. More strength. And that feels like a true gift.

Because of my extensive food allergies, my journey hasn’t looked like everyone else’s. I no longer consume corn products (and if you start reading labels, you’ll realize that takes out the majority of the grocery store!), dairy, gluten, grains, almonds, and traditional sweet treats. With my corn allergy, that also means no medications derived from corn — so no GLP-1 shortcuts for me.

This path required research. Lots and lots of research.

I’ve spent countless hours learning what I can eat instead of focusing on what I can’t. And surprisingly? I have some terrific, delicious options. Brands like Siete, TruBar, and Yum Earth have been wonderful finds. Organic produce, safe nuts, and discovering new clean products have turned into a bit of an adventure. There’s something empowering about knowing exactly what fuels your body well.

But the biggest change hasn’t just been what I eat — it’s how I eat.

I stopped eating out of boredom.

I stopped eating just because it was “time.”

I stopped eating simply because food was there.

Now, I eat when I’m actually hungry. I wait for my body to say, “Hey, it’s time.” When it does, I grab a small portion of something healthy — maybe a palmful of walnuts — and move on with my day. No guilt. No overthinking. Just fueling my body intentionally.

That shift alone has been powerful.

All of these changes combined have made me more active and energized. I don’t feel weighed down. I feel motivated. And that motivation spills over into every area of life.

Here’s my Wellness Wednesday challenge to you:

What small change can you make to improve your health?

It doesn’t have to be drastic. Maybe it’s drinking more water. Maybe it’s walking after dinner. Maybe it’s reading labels more carefully. Small, consistent changes add up in big ways.

Your body is the only one you get. Take care of it. Listen to it. Honor it.

And as always, I’m cheering you on right here from the Gap. 

Mary

February is National Heart Health Month, and it’s the perfect time to pause and remember just how valuable our hearts truly are. Not just the physical organ that keeps us alive, but the heart that carries our memories, our stress, our love, and our resilience.

Heart disease hits close to home for me. In my family, it’s far too common. My Grandpa passed away before he ever reached his 60th birthday due to heart disease. My dad endured a quadruple bypass. My Grandma had heart surgery. And sadly, the list goes on. These experiences have shaped how I look at health and how intentional I try to be about taking care of my own heart.

That’s one of the reasons I’m so drawn to photography and nature. Being outdoors, slowing down, watching the light change, hearing the wind, and capturing moments through my lens brings me peace. It lowers my stress and recenters me. It’s my happy place. And it’s one of the many ways I work to keep my heart strong and healthy—both physically and emotionally.

We live in a fast-paced, high-stress world. Our days are full, our minds are busy, and too often we put ourselves last. But stress takes a real toll on our hearts. That’s why it’s so important to find what brings you calm. Maybe it’s a walk in nature, time with loved ones, prayer, exercise, music, journaling, or simply sitting quietly and breathing.

This Wellness Wednesday, let this be your reminder: your heart is worth protecting. Find your happy place. Make time for the things that bring peace to your heart. Small moments of calm can make a big difference over time.

Take care of your heart—it carries you through it all. 

Mary