Author: wildaboutthegap

A Moment With an Elk I’ll Never Forget

One of my all-time favorite places to wander is a good zoo. I know there’s a divide when it comes to animals in captivity—and I understand it. In a perfect world, every creature would roam free across wild landscapes without fences or boundaries. But our world isn’t perfect, and sometimes a zoo is the only safe haven a species has left. Sometimes, it’s the only way we’re able to see animals that no longer exist in the wild. And sometimes… it’s where unforgettable connections happen.

That brings us to today’s Wildlife Wednesday.

Last weekend, during our travels, my husband and I met the most breathtaking elk. Massive, regal, and gentle-eyed, he carried himself like the quiet king of his space. We approached expecting curiosity—but what we didn’t expect was how deeply he looked back at us, as though he were studying us just as much as we were admiring him.

We spent more time with him than we meant to, just soaking in the moment—his soft snorts, the way his ears flicked toward every sound, the calm strength in his posture. And then, out of nowhere, he leaned in and licked my husband like a little puppy. We both burst out laughing, surprised and absolutely charmed. It’s not every day you get puppy kisses from an elk!

And the hardest part? Saying goodbye.

As we walked away, he watched us with that quiet, sad stare that tugs at your heart—the kind that makes you want to turn around and stay just a little longer. If I could’ve brought him home with me, I honestly would have. But since I couldn’t, these words—and the photos we captured—will have to hold onto that memory for us.

Some wildlife encounters stay with you long after the moment ends.

This one certainly will.

Here’s to the magic of meeting animals, wherever that happens—wild or sheltered—and to appreciating the beauty they bring into our lives.

-Mary

This Feel Good Friday, my heart is especially full. Earlier this week we celebrated Veteran’s Day, and I can’t help but pause and reflect on the incredible men and women who have worn the uniform—and the families who stood behind them with unwavering strength.

I’m blessed to be related to, and personally know, so many brave souls who stepped forward to serve our great country. Their courage, dedication, and love of freedom have shaped the world we live in today. They answered the call, stood the watch, and carried burdens most of us will never fully understand. For that, I will be forever grateful.

But today, I also honor the families—the ones who spent holidays with an empty chair at the table, who celebrated milestones through phone calls and letters, who stayed strong so their loved one could stay focused and safe. Their sacrifice is woven into every moment of service.

So on this quiet November Friday, let’s wrap ourselves in gratitude. Let’s lift up our veterans and their families not just on Veteran’s Day, but every day. Their sacrifices, seen and unseen, protect the freedoms that allow us to live, dream, create, and chase the joys we share here in our little corner of the world.

To all who served—and all who supported them—thank you. Your courage is our comfort. Your sacrifice is our freedom. Your strength is our inspiration.

Happy Feel Good Friday. 🇺🇸

-Mary

As the air turns crisp and the days grow shorter, the birds begin their quiet work of preparation. They fluff their feathers for warmth, gather food for leaner times, and seek safe shelter from the coming chill. Watching them, I’m reminded that nature always knows how to take care of itself — but do we?

Are you prepared for your own life’s changing seasons? Do you take the time to ensure your spirit, heart, and mind are nourished? Or do you find yourself so focused on everyone else that you forget to care for you?

Just like the bright cardinal perched proudly on a fence, take a moment to pause and reflect. Strength doesn’t just come from pushing through; it comes from preparation — from filling your own cup before the cold winds blow.

So this week, take a little time for yourself. Rest. Reflect. Refuel. Make sure you have what you need to thrive, not just survive. Because when you take care of you, your light shines warmer for everyone around you.

There’s something about a chilly November evening that wraps around you like a soft, familiar blanket. The air is crisp, the sky begins to fade into twilight, and the crackle of a warm fire feels like pure comfort. Tonight, as the flames dance in the fire pit, the gentle rustle of leaves gives way to the quiet footsteps of deer grazing just beyond the fence.

It’s one of those peaceful moments where everything slows down — where nature, warmth, and stillness come together perfectly. The glow of the fire, the soft flicker of string lights in the trees, and the quiet presence of wildlife create a simple kind of magic that reminds us how good it feels to just be.

Sometimes, the best way to end the week isn’t with plans or noise, but with a peaceful heart and a view like this. Here’s to finding your own cozy corner of calm this weekend — wherever that may be.

-Mary

It’s almost time for one of our favorite traditions — the Hunter’s Appreciation Dinner, happening the 1st Saturday in November!

Every year, our small town comes together to celebrate the hunters who not only enjoy the great outdoors but also give so much back to our community. From supporting local businesses to lending a helping hand in community projects, their contributions reach far beyond the woods.

Although I am a wildlife photographer, I understand the importance of hunting — the balance it brings to nature, the respect it fosters for wildlife, and the way it connects people to the land. Hunters play a vital role in conservation, and their appreciation for the outdoors mirrors my own.

The excitement is in the air as preparations are underway — tables set, delicious food planned, and plenty of laughter and stories to share. Events like this remind us why we love small-town life: neighbors coming together, traditions kept alive, and gratitude shared all around. ❤️

Here’s to a weekend full of fellowship, great food, and appreciation for those who help make our town thrive.

-Mary

One of my favorite places in Granbury, Texas, is Stumpy’s. It’s not the food that draws me in—it’s the peaceful atmosphere. Built right on beautiful Lake Granbury, Stumpy’s offers more than a meal; it offers a moment of serenity.

From the patio, you can sit by the marina and watch as graceful geese and ducks glide effortlessly across the shimmering water, dipping their heads in search of the tasty treats shared by patrons. There’s a quiet rhythm to it—a simple harmony between nature and the people who pause to admire it.

Capturing that elegance in a photo can be a challenge, but when I look at this image, it instantly takes me back. I can almost hear the soft ripples of the lake, the gentle chatter of families, and the laughter shared with loved ones. It reminds me that moments like these—blending family, nature, and calm—are what truly make life rich.

Sometimes, beauty isn’t in the grand or extraordinary—it’s in the quiet glide of a goose across the water, framed by a memory that warms the heart.

-Mary

Who are you? It’s such a simple question, yet one that takes a lifetime to answer.

What makes you you? What makes you original, unique, and one-of-a-kind in a world full of copies? Maybe it’s your laugh, your creativity, your kindness, or your unstoppable drive. Maybe it’s your love for the outdoors, or the joy you find in quiet moments with family.

Do you live to work—or work so you can live? There’s no wrong answer, but it’s a question worth asking. Life isn’t meant to be all about schedules, deadlines, and to-do lists. It’s also about the things that light your soul on fire—crafts, sports, fishing, shopping (yes please!), music, or simply creating something new and beautiful.

The truth is, finding yourself isn’t a one-time thing—it’s a lifelong journey. You grow, change, and rediscover who you are with every new season of life. So take time to pause and reflect. Do something that fills your heart this week.

Because the more you embrace what makes you you, the more beautiful your journey becomes.

Be Wild. Be Original. Be You.

-Mary

What makes you feel good? What puts a big smile on your face?

Are you smiling right now just thinking about it? Or is your list of happy things too long to count?

For me, love is what makes me happy.

The love from a caring parent for their precious child.

The love and unbreakable bond between grandparent and grandchild.

The love from a sweet puppy who anxiously awaits your arrival — or the cautiously curious love from a cat.

The love of a good friend who knows just when to call, what to say, and how to make you laugh when you need it most.

And of course, that tingly feeling of new love that makes your heart flutter.

But my favorite kind of love is old love — the kind that’s stood the test of time.

The love shared over many years between parent and child, or grandparent and grandchild.

In my life, I’m truly blessed to feel both new and old love every single day. My husband is my best friend — the one I can’t wait to tell something exciting to or share a fun secret with. He’s the best friend I always wanted… and to top it off, I get to be married to him!

That kind of love makes me smile so big my cheeks get sore. I still feel like a giddy teenager when he tells me I look beautiful.

This is my happy place — my reason to smile.

How about you?

Sometimes, just thinking about something that makes you happy can turn your whole day around. Try it out — and I hope you have a Feel Good Friday! 

Mary

Over a week ago, a majestic owl floated silently above me — a breathtaking sight that left me in awe. From that moment on, I made it my mission to capture this elusive beauty with my camera. Every evening since, I’ve been out at sunset, waiting… watching… hoping.

For the first few days, my focus was skyward. I ignored everything else, determined that the owl would reappear. But after four sunsets came and went, something shifted. I lowered my camera, took my eyes off the sky, and started to really see what was happening all around me.

I noticed the cardinals at the birdbath — how tiny drops of water cascade from their beaks as they sip and splash. I turned it into a little “capture the shot” game with my Nikon — and I got it! Then came the bunnies — yes, bunnies — locked in a territorial battle that looked more like a dance, hopping into the air until one finally gave up.

A mischievous squirrel also made an appearance, fiercely protecting his stash of peanuts from a bold cardinal thief. You’ve never seen a more determined little guardian! The titmouse bird has become a frequent visitor, and I even learned that female deer aren’t always the gentlest with their young.

And just when I thought the day couldn’t get any more magical, the evening ended with a swirl of monarch butterflies dancing through the sunset — a perfect ending to a week of rediscovery.

All these small, beautiful moments were happening right in front of me — and I would have missed them if I’d kept waiting for the owl.

Sometimes, the thing we’re searching for doesn’t appear when we expect it to. But if we take a moment to look around, to slow down and truly observe, we’ll find beauty in the unexpected.

Take time to enjoy life’s simple wonders. Don’t let one distraction keep you from seeing the magic that’s already all around you.

Mary